The only people who get changed are those who fall at the feet of Jesus. Those who keep Jesus at arms length; who sow "cool," reap "cool." If you sow desperate, you're going to get a desperate God who is madly in love with you, pouring out His blessings on your life. In the nations of the world, where God is moving mightily, people fall at His feet. In cynical America, people are rarely desperate to know God.